02 May 2013

ten things you can do to be happier this week

i know you won't be shocked to hear i'm a BIG believer in optimism. it's something i try to talk about a lot on this blog. i'm also a big believer in two things related to happiness: 1. that it's a choice & there are active, therapeutic steps you can take to increase your happiness; 2. that the best source of happiness is giving it to others. 

below, there's a list of my tried & true ways to make your heart happier. and a challenge: jot down this list & put it somewhere in your home. each day for a week, try to check one or two things off the list. 


10 things you can do to be happier this week: 

1. tackle something that has been giving you anxiety. 
2. send a handwritten thank you note to someone.
3. do an anonymous, altruistic deed. 
4. pick something you have in excess: clothing, books -- and edit it down, enormously. 
5. write things you're grateful for on sticky notes, & cover a wall with them.  
6. seek forgiveness -- from yourself, or from someone you've wronged. 
7. call a friend just to say i love you. tell him or her why. be specific. 
8. reach out to someone who has inspired you in some way. 
9. express only positive things (no complaining at all) for a whole day.
10. start a journal & commit to it, even if it's just one line a day. 

20 comments:

  1. This was a lovely list. Thank you so much for posting. Quite inspirational.

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  2. 1. I love your top and 2. Thank you so much for such a lovely list, really positive, really inspirational. :) x

    lemon-freckles.blogspot.co.uk

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  3. I love all of these, I really want to make the sticky note wall.

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  4. This is a great list. Something I must keep in mind, for sure :)

    xox Sammi
    www.thesoubrettebrunette.blogspot.com

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  5. what a great list! these little things are really what help bring happiness :) i definitely need to try a few of these for sure!

    xo,
    kristyn

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  6. I really love these ideas. I am definitely trying to be more positive and optimistic!
    the-creationofbeauty.blogspot.com

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  7. LOVE this list! Challenge accepted.

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  8. Great list! Writing a hand written note soon!

    xo
    Caroline

    lovecarolineblog.blogspot.com

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  9. aww what a cutie! thanks for this post, you've really cheered me up after a pretty trying week!

    Hannah xx

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  10. i was just thinking yesterday about how different i feel when i take time to remember all the things i am thankful for... i like that this list also has "action points"!
    #11: write a blog (post) which gives hope and calls people to optimism. ;)

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  11. i have started a journal recently--it is the one line a day for five years one--and it makes me so happy.

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  12. love love love this. thanks for sharing! :)

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  13. I love this! I'm definitely going to make an effort to do some of these things this week. I love the handwritten thank you note idea!

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  14. love this! i am going to do it! xoxo

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  15. wise words. i dig this post. :)

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  16. you are lovely. i am a very negative person way too often but i am also a big believer in the power of choosing to see the good and joy in each day and how it can change you.

    i am going to try to do these things more often. thank you for sharing your ideas.

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